Before Facebook Became the Diary
Football, music, family, travel and the beginnings of an increasingly international security career.
Before Facebook became the running diary of everyday life, the foundations of the story were already firmly in place. Family, football, travel, music and a developing career in security all competed for space.
Arsenal was a major part of those years. As a season-ticket holder, Highbury was more than simply somewhere to watch football. It was part of the rhythm of the year.
When Arsenal moved from Highbury to the Emirates Stadium, I moved with them into a very different era of the club.
Football, and particularly Arsenal, became an important part of my life. For a period I was an Arsenal season-ticket holder, which meant football wasn’t simply something watched on television on a Saturday afternoon. Going to matches became part of the rhythm of the year.
There was the anticipation before a match, the journey into London, meeting people, the atmosphere around the ground and then those ninety minutes during which absolutely everything else could temporarily become irrelevant.
Being a season-ticket holder also meant experiencing the highs and lows that come with following the same club week after week.
Great performances, terrible performances, memorable goals, frustrating afternoons and the shared optimism that somehow accompanies the beginning of every new season all became part of the experience.
Looking back, those years supporting Arsenal from the stands form an important part of my memories of this period of my life.
Music was another constant. Heavy metal — particularly Iron Maiden, alongside bands such as Metallica — provided a soundtrack that would continue through the decades.
There was also an increasing appetite for seeing the world. Formula One, overseas travel and an international security career would eventually take James across Europe, Africa, Asia and the United States.
Long before social media recorded the details, the pattern had already been established: work hard, travel whenever possible, follow the things that matter and keep family at the centre of it all.